HitcH

Authentically,
HitcH

In reference to the 5 questions that you asked me to rank, here they are.

1.) 10
2.) 8
3.) 7
4.) 10
5.) 2

Thanks!

So let’s clarify what I meant for you to understand. There are two ways to look at the dynamics between a man and woman’s interaction throughout their dating lifecycle. After learning the two ways to look at it, you may have the tools to answer your own questions. The goal is to get you to the point where you say, “Ah-ha,” and can do the right thing on the fly or in the heat of the moment with a woman.

The first thing to get is that there is a big picture we need to acknowledge and understand. It’s the most critical part to get and will give you the most growth over time. It’s the part that when understood and implemented, can actually put to rest the need to proactively look for women. It will actually recruit amazing women on your behalf. It’s a characteristic that you have even if you haven’t brought it out of yourself. I can label it as charisma, personality or confidence, depending on your comfortability with each trait you believe you possess.

Rate yourself in these areas to help me understand you better (Scale 1-10, 10 being very strong):

Starting conversations with new people?
Sharing your feelings with women?
Giving your opinion to strangers?
Complimenting women?
Asking a woman on a date or to a social event?

The deal is, if you start to focus on the tricks or rules to getting women, you’ll never really get to the highest level of attractiveness. In fact, you’ll cheat yourself out of a chance to live your way always using someone elses ideas. I call those tricks tactical illustrations. They are the product of the big picture thinking that must come first. The reason I use them is that they are easy to relate to and help illustrate the big picture idea I’m explaining.

The advice I gave in referrence to getting out of your comfort zone was a tactical idea. An idea that I used to help explain in relatable terms how to act differently than a typical guy. By acting differently than a typical guy, you give yourself the opportunity to stand out. The big idea I wanted you to understand was to test new boundaries by doing the opposite of what you usually do. Maybe a more relatable example for you would have been to disagree with a woman you are having a conversation with and explain why you think she’s wrong. Most guys listen and give her the nod hoping that if they do, they’ll have a better shot. Wrong. It’s not about improving YOUR odds. It’s about getting to a place where she meets you and knows you’re something she’ll need to be on her best game to get a chance with.

Authentically,
HitcH